The Golden Rules of Regifting Presents

Regifting a once frowned-upon practice is gaining popularity as people embrace more sustainable and thoughtful ways to exchange gifts. Whether you’re aiming to simplify the holidays, reduce waste, or stay within your budget, regifting can be a creative and meaningful gesture when done correctly.

Here’s how etiquette experts recommend regifting with grace and avoiding any potential missteps.

Why Regifting Is Okay

Regifting doesn’t have to feel deceitful or dismissive. Instead, it can be a way to pass along something you know someone else will appreciate. "There’s no hard-and-fast rule against regifting," says Nick Leighton, etiquette expert and host of the podcast Were You Raised by Wolves? What’s most important, he says, is considering the recipient’s feelings and putting thought into the process.

The Golden Rules of Regifting

1. Only Regift Brand New Items

The cardinal rule of regifting is to ensure the item is in pristine condition. That means it should be brand new and unused, with original packaging or tags still intact. “The item you are giving should be brand new never worn, washed, or even played with for five minutes,” says Jodi RR Smith, etiquette consultant and president of Mannersmith.

The exception? Heirlooms like jewelry or china. In these cases, sharing the item's history can add sentimental value.

2. Ensure It’s Thoughtful

A regift should be something the recipient will genuinely enjoy. “Regifting is not purely to rid yourself of some ill-gotten gift,” says Smith. Instead, think of regifting as an opportunity to show thoughtfulness and care.

For example, if someone gives you a perfume that doesn’t suit you, but you know a friend who loves that fragrance, it’s perfectly acceptable to pass it on. Consider adding a personal touch, like a handwritten note, to make the gift feel even more intentional.

3. Avoid Dated or Unfashionable Gifts

Even if the item is brand new, make sure it aligns with the recipient’s tastes and lifestyle. A gift that has been sitting in your closet for years or feels outdated won’t leave the best impression.

4. Keep It Within Separate Circles

One of the biggest regifting faux pas is accidentally regifting to someone who knows or worse, is the original giver. To avoid awkward situations, Leighton and Smith both recommend regifting within different social circles. The more unique the gift, the more distance there should be between the original giver and the new recipient.

5. Quarantine as Needed

In our current health-conscious world, Smith advises ensuring that any regift is virus-free. If anyone in your home has been unwell, store the item in a separate room or closet for at least three days before gifting it.

6. Elevate the Presentation

Presentation matters when regifting. Invest in quality wrapping paper, ribbons, and bows to ensure the item feels as special as a brand-new gift. Also, double-check the package for any leftover cards or tags from the original giver before wrapping it up.

When Regifting Makes the Most Sense

Regifting can shine in situations where it aligns with the recipient’s preferences or interests. If a friend has admired an item you own, like a teacup or book series, regifting it with an added touch such as a box of gourmet tea or cozy socks can turn it into a memorable and heartfelt present.

The Bottom Line

Regifting is a practical and sustainable way to give when done thoughtfully. By following these golden rules, you can ensure your regifts come across as meaningful gestures rather than thoughtless rehoming.

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