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How to Clean Your Vagina the Right Way
Why less is more when it comes to vaginal hygiene and what you should be cleaning instead.

Let’s clear up a common misconception you don’t need to clean the inside of your vagina. Really. The vagina is a self-cleaning organ, and attempting to scrub or flush it out can do more harm than good.
What you can and should clean is your vulva the external part of your genitals. Here’s how to care for this sensitive area properly, avoid common hygiene pitfalls, and know when to call your doctor.
First, What Exactly Is the Vagina?
Anatomy lesson: your vagina is the internal canal that connects the cervix to the outside of your body. The vulva includes the labia, clitoris, and other external structures.
So when people ask how to clean the vagina, they often mean the vulva and that’s an important distinction. The vagina keeps itself clean with natural secretions and a balanced microbiome. Introducing soap or douches inside can disrupt this balance and lead to irritation, infections, and more serious complications.
How to Gently Clean Your Vulva
Skip the scrubbing. Here’s how to wash your vulva without upsetting your body’s natural balance:
Use warm water and a washcloth: You can clean the vulva with just water, or a mild, unscented soap if needed.
Gently separate the labia: Clean around the folds without inserting anything into the vaginal canal.
Wash the perineum and anus last: Always work front to back to avoid transferring bacteria.
Pat dry: Keep the area dry to reduce the risk of yeast infections. Avoid rubbing with a towel.
What Not to Do
Don’t use scented soaps or scrubs
Don’t use douches or vaginal sprays
Don’t wipe from back to front
Don’t insert anything in the vagina for “cleaning”
Should You Clean Your Vagina After Sex or Your Period?
Still no! The vagina will naturally clear out menstrual blood and semen on its own. If you want to freshen up:
Rinse your vulva with warm water
Urinate after sex to flush bacteria and reduce UTI risk
Wipe front to back, then pat dry
No fancy cleansers needed. Just water, your hand or a clean cloth, and gentle care.
Why Douching Can Do More Harm Than Good
Despite being widely marketed, douches are linked to a range of health concerns, including:
Pelvic inflammatory disease (PID)
Vaginal irritation and infections
Increased risk of ectopic pregnancy
Disruption of healthy bacteria
Higher likelihood of HPV infection
Studies have even found chemical residues in women who regularly douche an unnecessary risk for something your body already handles beautifully.
What About Vaginal Steaming?
Despite celebrity buzz, there’s no scientific evidence supporting vaginal steaming. Squatting over hot, herb-infused water might sound luxurious, but it can lead to burns and irritation. This practice isn’t proven to detox or “cleanse” anything.
Vaginal Discharge Is Normal
Yes, discharge is part of your vagina’s self-cleaning system. Healthy discharge is usually:
Clear, white, or slightly yellow
Odorless or mildly scented
Creamy, sticky, or stretchy in texture
It may change slightly throughout your menstrual cycle. What’s not normal: green, gray, or foul-smelling discharge, especially if accompanied by itching or irritation.
Postpartum Vaginal Care
After childbirth, your vagina and vulva need extra TLC. Avoid inserting anything, and follow these tips:
Use a peri bottle with warm water to rinse after urinating
Pat dry gently
Clean your vulva and perineum daily with warm water
Wash your hands before and after using the bathroom
Your care team will also give you postpartum supplies like wipes, disposable underwear, and pads.
Smart Hygiene Tips for a Healthy Vaginal Area
Clean your vulva daily with warm water
Wipe front to back
Avoid douching or scented products
Wear breathable cotton underwear
Change out of wet clothes quickly
Wash hands before and after touching your vulva
Clean your sex toys thoroughly
Pee after sex to flush bacteria
When to Call Your Doctor
Get in touch with a healthcare provider if you notice:
Burning during urination or sex
Unusual discharge (green, gray, clumpy)
Strong, persistent odor
Itching or redness
Pelvic pain or spotting between periods
Annual checkups with your OB/GYN or primary care provider are also important for maintaining overall reproductive health.
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