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Can’t Stick to Exercise? 10 Motivation Tips That Help

From setting realistic goals to finding joy in movement, these strategies can help you build a routine that sticks.

Even with the best intentions, staying consistent with exercise can feel like an uphill battle. Whether you're brand-new to working out or returning after a break, it’s common to hit a motivational wall. The good news? There are proven strategies to help you push past it and turn exercise into a sustainable part of your life.

Here are 10 motivating tips that can help you build momentum and keep it going.

1. Set Clear, Realistic Goals

Ambitious goals are great, but they can also be overwhelming. Instead of aiming to "get in shape," break your goal into smaller, specific milestones.

Try setting SMART goals:

  • Specific: "Go for a 20-minute walk after lunch."

  • Measurable: "Complete three strength workouts this week."

  • Actionable: "Follow a beginner yoga video on Monday and Friday."

  • Realistic: "Exercise three days a week" instead of every day.

  • Time-based: "Be able to jog for 20 minutes by the end of next month."

Bonus tip: Write your goals down and display them somewhere visible. Reassess and adjust them regularly to match your progress.

2. Create a Workout Schedule

Making exercise part of your routine just like brushing your teeth can help make it second nature.

  • Schedule your workouts in your calendar like appointments.

  • Try morning workouts to avoid decision fatigue later in the day.

  • Create a pre-workout ritual (like changing clothes or putting on music).

  • Sign up for classes to stay accountable and build consistency.

3. Focus on Activities You Actually Enjoy

Enjoyment is key to sustainability. Consider:

  • Do you prefer indoor or outdoor workouts?

  • Do you like structure or spontaneity?

  • Would you rather work out solo or with a group?

Tip: Anything that gets you moving counts walking, dancing, biking, swimming, or even gardening. If you love it, you’re more likely to stick with it.

Try “temptation bundling” pair your workout with something you enjoy, like listening to a favorite podcast or watching a show you save just for exercise time.

4. Start Small and Build From There

All-or-nothing thinking is one of the biggest motivation killers. Instead:

  • Start with 5 or 10 minutes a day.

  • Gradually increase intensity and duration.

  • Don’t skip a workout just because you can’t do your usual full session.

  • Accept that some days will be easier than others and that’s okay.

Consistency is more important than perfection.

5. Track Your Progress

Tracking can be motivating and rewarding. You might use:

  • A fitness journal or notes app

  • A smartwatch or pedometer

  • A free fitness app

  • A calendar where you mark workout days

Seeing your progress whether it’s steps taken, workouts completed, or mood improvements can help reinforce the habit.

6. Use Positive Self-Talk

Be your own cheerleader, not your critic.

  • Focus on wins ("I moved my body today!") instead of slips.

  • Leave notes with positive affirmations where you’ll see them.

  • Remind yourself of how you feel after a workout.

  • Acknowledge that building a new habit takes time often a few weeks or more.

7. Lean on Social Support

Support makes a big difference.

  • Find a workout buddy to share the experience and stay accountable.

  • Join a class or walking group for a sense of community.

  • Include your family go for a walk with your kids or play an active game together.

  • Use online support groups or share your progress on social media if that motivates you.

Support doesn't have to mean exercising with others. Sometimes just talking about your goals can help.

8. Make Workouts More Convenient

Busy schedule? These small changes can help:

  • Break workouts into short chunks three 10-minute sessions are just as effective.

  • Set reminders to move during long stretches of sitting.

  • Incorporate movement into your day take stairs, park farther away, or do squats while brushing your teeth.

  • Exercise at home or close to work to eliminate commute time.

  • Move while watching TV or listening to music or podcasts.

9. Reward Yourself

Rewards can increase motivation just make them meaningful.

Some ideas:

  • Treat yourself to new workout gear or a massage

  • Download a new playlist

  • Try a fun fitness class

  • Enjoy a healthy treat or relaxing bath

Tie the reward to a specific, achievable goal like completing a week of workouts or reaching a new personal best.

10. Find Your Inspiration

What inspires you? Maybe it’s a long-term health goal, being active with your kids, or feeling mentally clear after a walk.

Try this:

  • Put your gym shoes or yoga mat somewhere visible.

  • Set your workout clothes out the night before.

  • Visualize how great you’ll feel after you finish.

  • Keep a motivational quote or image nearby.

Common Motivation Barriers (and How to Overcome Them)

Many people struggle to stay motivated due to:

  • Lack of time

  • Boredom with routines

  • Changes in life circumstances (job, family, illness)

  • Mental health challenges or low energy

  • Lack of support or accountability

If you’re feeling stuck, remind yourself that setbacks are normal you don’t need to start over, just keep going. Talk to a healthcare provider or a certified fitness professional if you're unsure where to begin or need support.

Getting regular exercise isn’t about being perfect it’s about showing up for yourself in ways that feel doable, sustainable, and empowering.

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