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Understanding What’s Normal for Pubic Hair in Men and Women
From growth patterns to grooming choices, here's what to know about pubic hair and how to care for it safely.

Pubic hair is a natural part of human development that begins during puberty and varies widely from person to person. While some people embrace it, others prefer to trim, groom, or remove it entirely. Whether you choose to keep it, style it, or remove it, understanding the role of pubic hair and the safest ways to care for it can help you make informed, body-positive choices.
Why Do We Have Pubic Hair?
Pubic hair is thicker and more pigmented than the fine hair on other parts of your body. It’s known as terminal hair, and experts believe it serves several purposes:
Protection: Acts as a barrier between the skin and potential irritants such as bacteria, sweat, or friction.
Temperature regulation: Helps maintain warmth and moisture around the genital area.
Reduced friction: Minimizes chafing during physical activity or sexual activity.
Potential STI protection: Some research suggests that not removing pubic hair may help lower the risk of skin-tearing that increases STI transmission.
Possible pheromone function: Though not scientifically confirmed, pubic hair may have played a role in attraction and communication in early human development.
What’s Normal for Pubic Hair Growth?
Pubic hair begins growing at the onset of puberty, typically between ages 8 and 13 in females and 9 and 14 in males. Hair appears around the genitals and may extend to the inner thighs and lower abdomen.
Differences by Gender and Anatomy
In people with vulvas: Hair typically grows on the outer labia and mons pubis (the mound above the vulva).
In people with penises: Hair grows around the base of the penis and over the scrotum.
What Varies:
Amount of hair
Curl pattern and thickness
Color and pigment
Rate of growth
All variations are normal and largely influenced by genetics and hormones.
Should You Remove Pubic Hair?
Removing pubic hair is a personal preference not a medical necessity. There are no health benefits to removal, but it’s common for aesthetic or cultural reasons.
A U.S. survey found that 87% of women ages 16–40 groom or remove some or all of their pubic hair. The most common reasons include:
Feeling clean or attractive
Partner preference
Cultural norms or beauty standards
However, removal does come with some risks especially when done improperly.
Common Hair Removal Methods and Their Risks
Each method has pros and cons. Here's what to know:
Trimming
Low risk
Helps manage hair without direct skin contact
Use clean scissors or electric trimmers
Shaving
High risk for irritation and ingrown hairs
Shave in the direction of hair growth
Use shaving cream and a clean razor
Tweezing
Risk of ingrown hairs and infection
Can cause irritation or skin discoloration
Waxing or Sugaring
Longer-lasting results (weeks)
Painful and may cause burns, irritation, or even infection
Risk of folliculitis (inflamed hair follicles)
Laser Hair Removal
Semi-permanent but requires multiple sessions
Most effective on light skin and dark hair
Potential side effects: redness, burning, or scarring
Depilatory Creams
Dissolve hair at the skin level
Can irritate sensitive genital skin
Always patch-test first
One study found that 1 in 4 people who groom their pubic hair have experienced a grooming-related injury or infection.
Preventing Ingrown Hairs
Ingrown hairs are a common result of shaving or waxing. To reduce risk:
Shave in the direction of hair growth
Gently exfoliate the area
Moisturize afterward to soothe skin
Avoid tight clothing that causes friction
Is It Unhygienic to Keep Pubic Hair?
Not at all. Pubic hair is not dirty, and having it does not mean you’re unhygienic. In fact, it may help trap debris and bacteria before they reach your skin.
To keep the area clean:
Rinse with warm water and mild soap
Gently pat dry
Avoid using harsh chemicals or fragrances
Mild body odor is normal and usually a result of sweat glands in the groin—not poor hygiene.
When to Avoid Hair Removal
If you've recently undergone surgery (especially gynecological procedures), wait several weeks before shaving or waxing to reduce the risk of infection. Always speak with your healthcare provider if you're unsure when it's safe to resume grooming.
Understanding the Personal and Cultural Context
Hygiene routines and grooming habits are shaped by many factors, including:
Cultural norms and beliefs
Body image and media influence
Partner preferences
Personal comfort or identity
There’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Your body, your rules.
When to Talk to a Healthcare Provider
See your provider if you experience:
Persistent itching, rash, or ingrown hairs
Signs of infection (redness, swelling, pus)
Unusual hair loss or skin changes
Questions about safe grooming methods
They can provide guidance on skin care, hair removal safety, or discuss medical options like laser therapy.
Final Thoughts
Pubic hair is completely natural and varies from person to person in texture, amount, and location. Whether you choose to leave it, trim it, or remove it, the most important thing is doing what feels right for you. If you decide to groom, take precautions to reduce irritation and infection. And remember cleanliness doesn’t depend on being hair-free.
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