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Understanding What’s Normal for Pubic Hair in Men and Women

From growth patterns to grooming choices, here's what to know about pubic hair and how to care for it safely.

Pubic hair is a natural part of human development that begins during puberty and varies widely from person to person. While some people embrace it, others prefer to trim, groom, or remove it entirely. Whether you choose to keep it, style it, or remove it, understanding the role of pubic hair and the safest ways to care for it can help you make informed, body-positive choices.

Why Do We Have Pubic Hair?

Pubic hair is thicker and more pigmented than the fine hair on other parts of your body. It’s known as terminal hair, and experts believe it serves several purposes:

  • Protection: Acts as a barrier between the skin and potential irritants such as bacteria, sweat, or friction.

  • Temperature regulation: Helps maintain warmth and moisture around the genital area.

  • Reduced friction: Minimizes chafing during physical activity or sexual activity.

  • Potential STI protection: Some research suggests that not removing pubic hair may help lower the risk of skin-tearing that increases STI transmission.

  • Possible pheromone function: Though not scientifically confirmed, pubic hair may have played a role in attraction and communication in early human development.

What’s Normal for Pubic Hair Growth?

Pubic hair begins growing at the onset of puberty, typically between ages 8 and 13 in females and 9 and 14 in males. Hair appears around the genitals and may extend to the inner thighs and lower abdomen.

Differences by Gender and Anatomy

  • In people with vulvas: Hair typically grows on the outer labia and mons pubis (the mound above the vulva).

  • In people with penises: Hair grows around the base of the penis and over the scrotum.

What Varies:

  • Amount of hair

  • Curl pattern and thickness

  • Color and pigment

  • Rate of growth

All variations are normal and largely influenced by genetics and hormones.

Should You Remove Pubic Hair?

Removing pubic hair is a personal preference not a medical necessity. There are no health benefits to removal, but it’s common for aesthetic or cultural reasons.

A U.S. survey found that 87% of women ages 16–40 groom or remove some or all of their pubic hair. The most common reasons include:

  • Feeling clean or attractive

  • Partner preference

  • Cultural norms or beauty standards

However, removal does come with some risks especially when done improperly.

Common Hair Removal Methods and Their Risks

Each method has pros and cons. Here's what to know:

Trimming

  • Low risk

  • Helps manage hair without direct skin contact

  • Use clean scissors or electric trimmers

Shaving

  • High risk for irritation and ingrown hairs

  • Shave in the direction of hair growth

  • Use shaving cream and a clean razor

Tweezing

  • Risk of ingrown hairs and infection

  • Can cause irritation or skin discoloration

Waxing or Sugaring

  • Longer-lasting results (weeks)

  • Painful and may cause burns, irritation, or even infection

  • Risk of folliculitis (inflamed hair follicles)

Laser Hair Removal

  • Semi-permanent but requires multiple sessions

  • Most effective on light skin and dark hair

  • Potential side effects: redness, burning, or scarring

Depilatory Creams

  • Dissolve hair at the skin level

  • Can irritate sensitive genital skin

  • Always patch-test first

One study found that 1 in 4 people who groom their pubic hair have experienced a grooming-related injury or infection.

Preventing Ingrown Hairs

Ingrown hairs are a common result of shaving or waxing. To reduce risk:

  • Shave in the direction of hair growth

  • Gently exfoliate the area

  • Moisturize afterward to soothe skin

  • Avoid tight clothing that causes friction

Is It Unhygienic to Keep Pubic Hair?

Not at all. Pubic hair is not dirty, and having it does not mean you’re unhygienic. In fact, it may help trap debris and bacteria before they reach your skin.

To keep the area clean:

  • Rinse with warm water and mild soap

  • Gently pat dry

  • Avoid using harsh chemicals or fragrances

Mild body odor is normal and usually a result of sweat glands in the groin—not poor hygiene.

When to Avoid Hair Removal

If you've recently undergone surgery (especially gynecological procedures), wait several weeks before shaving or waxing to reduce the risk of infection. Always speak with your healthcare provider if you're unsure when it's safe to resume grooming.

Understanding the Personal and Cultural Context

Hygiene routines and grooming habits are shaped by many factors, including:

  • Cultural norms and beliefs

  • Body image and media influence

  • Partner preferences

  • Personal comfort or identity

There’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Your body, your rules.

When to Talk to a Healthcare Provider

See your provider if you experience:

  • Persistent itching, rash, or ingrown hairs

  • Signs of infection (redness, swelling, pus)

  • Unusual hair loss or skin changes

  • Questions about safe grooming methods

They can provide guidance on skin care, hair removal safety, or discuss medical options like laser therapy.

Final Thoughts

Pubic hair is completely natural and varies from person to person in texture, amount, and location. Whether you choose to leave it, trim it, or remove it, the most important thing is doing what feels right for you. If you decide to groom, take precautions to reduce irritation and infection. And remember cleanliness doesn’t depend on being hair-free.

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